attentive, beneficent, benevolent, benignant, compassionate, concerned, considerate, cordial, good-hearted, humane, kind, kindhearted, kindly, softhearted, solicitous, sympathetic, tenderhearted, thoughtful, warmheartedaltruistic, brotherly, charitable, freehanded, generous, greathearted, helpful, hospitable, humanitarian, liberal, magnanimous, munificent, neighborly, nice, noble, openhearted, patient, philanthropic(also philanthropical), selfless, understanding, unselfishadoring, affectionate, devoted, fond, loving, tender

aloof, antisocial, cold-eyed, cool, detached, distant, dry, frosty, hard-hearted, indifferent, offish, pitiless, remote, reserved, standoffish, unbending, uncaring, unfeelingdisaffected, unconcerned, uninvolvedcold, frigid, unfriendlycallous, cold-blooded, hard-boiled, heartless, pitiless, ruthless, soulless, unromantic, unsentimentalunloving