babied, cockered, coddled, cosseted, dandled, indulged, mollycoddled, nursed, spoiled(or chiefly British spoilt), wet-nursed

catered (to), humoredcontented, delighted, gladdened, gratified, mothered, obliged, pleased, satisfiedappeased, mollified, pacified, placated, soothed

abused, ill-treated, ill-used, maltreated, manhandled, mishandled, mistreated, misused

controlled, disciplined, restrainedoppressedneglected, overlooked, slightedmolested, outraged, violatedharassed, harmed, hurt, injured, oppressed, persecuted, tormented, tortured, victimized