anger, incense, inflame(also enflame), infuriate, ire, mad, madden, outrage, rankle, rile, roil, steam up, tick off

affront, aggravate, annoy, burn (up), cross, exasperate, get, huff, irritate, miff, nettle, offend, peeve, pique, provoke, put out, ruffle, vexantagonize, embitter, envenom

get one's goat, rub the wrong way

delight, gratify, please

allay, assuage, relievecomfort, console, sootheappease, conciliate, mollify, pacify, placatecalm, lull, quiet, settlebeguile, bewitch, captivate, charm, disarm, enchant